I just wanted to give you all a little update on the situation, and I wanted to let you all know how I was doing.
My nerves are doing much better. For about 3 days during the start of all of that mess I hadn't really slept, eaten, or done, really anything.
I gave in to those cruel people, and it kills me - But I am just happy I feel sane again. My rats are over at my friends house. I see them all the time - It makes me sad not being able to sit on my bed with a rat on my lap, but fortunately, they're still close, and I can always go over there.
I talked to the management woman (Sally, we called her) and told her that I found another place for my rats. She told me she needed to come into out home for an inspection.. LOL.
I'm really upset by it, because it's absolutely ridiculous that we have to to let some stranger into our home, because of someones false accusations ( I found out a lot of other stuff, about rumors that were going on around my neighborhood, about me - Absolutely disgusting, and I won't even mention them)
But if that's what makes this ignorant woman happy, so be it.
I just want to be left alone.
We've been really busy straightening up, and just pretty much making our house perfect, so she can't complain about anything else.
I've been working at home on stuff for about 12 hours a day, and have only been getting about 5 hours of sleep at night (never sound though, because of my nerves :(.)
I honestly just can't wait until out "appointment' Monday, so she can come in, and then never bother us again.
Compared to how sick I felt last week, I am doing much, much, better, but I'm definitely still feeling anxiety, because I even have to deal with this woman.
Once it's all over things will start picking up again here on Rats and More. I've been working on a couple things, and I have a lot more coming soon, but with all of this nonsense over here, everything got pushed back a little - But I promise, lots of reviews and some giveaways, coming soon! :)
i'm glad you are better and hope things will just go better and better
ReplyDeleteGood Luck and I am glad to hear that you are feeling better.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for what's been happening to you. I remember reading about what happened with those crazy people trying to take away your rats, and I just could not believe it. You're very fortunate to have great friends who will take care of them, but they belong in your home, with you! Just makes me mad....and then they have to invite themselves into your HOME to "inspect"?? All of this is ridiculous, and I just wanted to let you know that I feel for you!
ReplyDeleteI agree! It really makes me mad, and I am just waiting for this to all be over, so we can be left alone for good!
DeleteThanks for the update Amanda. It's good to hear that you are coping so well. I'm proud of you for how you've handled this incredibly difficult situation.
ReplyDeleteMean people suck. Always have and always will. Your gentle spirit and kind heart go far to counter their negativity in this world.
Thanks Rusthawk :) - I really try, and everyone has been saying I've done a pretty good job keeping myself together in all of this.
DeleteI have my moments where I feel like I've done the right thing, and others where I just don't. But I think once she comes and does this final inspection or whatever, we'll be fine, and hopefully left alone.
Thanks for the update Amanda. It's good to hear that you are coping so well. I'm proud of you for how you've handled this incredibly difficult situation.
ReplyDeleteMean people suck. Always have and always will. Your gentle spirit and kind heart go far to counter their negativity in this world.
Sorry to hear all that. My sister used to have rats as pets, as well as cats and a huge iguana.
ReplyDeleteI came to your blog from Twitter and am now following you. I have been browsing your blog and find it very interesting.
I'm so happy you found my blog, and that's cool that your sister had rats as well - They're so awesome :)
DeleteIs it even legal for them to demand to "inspect" your home? I don't think that is right and I think maybe they are just trying to find something for whatever reason...I don't think I'd allow them to do an inspection because how do they know you won't bring the rats back home unless they demand a random inspection to be sure you don't have the rats back...so ridiculous to me! They need to find something better to do with their time.
ReplyDeleteI hope all goes well with everything though, you don't deserve all of this mess.
I have no idea, but I find it ridiculous too. I just want them to leave me alone!
Deletethis whole situation disgusts me and I wish I had the power to make it different. in another time and place where I am independently wealthy I would have paid for your legal counsel and ran these idiots into the ground over this. I am glad you are feeling better but am just sick over this for you.
ReplyDeletethis whole situation disgusts me and I wish I had the power to make it different. in another time and place where I am independently wealthy I would have paid for your legal counsel and ran these idiots into the ground over this. I am glad you are feeling better but am just sick over this for you.
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